there are two sides in a relationship. in order for it to work both sides have to agree to hold on to each other. neither should let go, neither should push the other away... kung mukhang wala namang gana ang humahawak sayo, diba mawawalan ka na rin ng gana? kung tinutulak ka niyang palayo, bakit ka pa magpupumilit kumapit? masasayang lang ang pagod. ang dami naman diyang iba, diba?
ano nga pala ang kahulugan ng true love? diba wala naman talagang true love...kathang isip lamang ito na binuo ng hallmark (greeting cards) upang makabenta ng maraming maraming cards. kunwari lang kailangan ng true love sa isang malusog na relasyon pero ang totoo, ang pinakaimportanteng sangkap sa malusog na relasyon ay ***... hahaha! joke lang... pinakaimportante ay compromise at communication. communicate!!! keep an open mind and learn to listen to yourself and to your partner.
there's also no harm in letting go when there's no where to go but down. understand that things come and go, but it doesn't mean it's the end of the world. nothing is constant but change. don't try to restrain your partner. the tighter your grip, the more she wants to escape.
i am a free spirit. no one can make me stay in one place longer than my ass could take. ayoko rin naghihintay. i have fear of commitment and you should know that by now. don't take it personally if eventually i leave you without warning. this is me. live with it.
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